Thursday, January 27, 2011

Projects


I made the Sam for my sister for Christmas, Home I made for my mom for Christmas as well and the Valentines are for me! :)

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Grandpa Anderson



Where do I even begin…I guess I will start from when I met these wonderful people! Six years ago before Ben and I were even dating, Ben took me over to his grandparents house in Holladay, UT to watch a BYU basketball game. When I met them I was instantly welcomed and felt of their love for me. After my visit with them I was very jealous of Ben being able to have grandparents as great as grandma and grandpa Anderson. In 2007 we moved in with them while looking for a place to live. Looking back I will treasure those few short months forever. They were the BEST! Grandma would cook three meals a day for us and if she didn't they would take us out to eat. Aidan was only several months old and he LOVED his great grandparents. He would help grandma with unloading the dishwasher and she would teach him how to go up and down the stairs. We would spend a lot of time outside in their amazing backyard. Ben would help Grandpa with the lawn care and Aidan and I loved picking the fruit from off the ground. Grandpa would have me spend some time with him and Grandma teaching them how to use their new computer that they had just bought and how to receive and send emails each day. On the weekends we would go out to Cafe Rio a lot and come back to watch a movie on their On Demand which they had me show them how to use! :) My most favorite thing was to watch their love for each other and how Grandma loved to take care of Grandpa. Grandpa was so proactive about helping us however he could. I swear he was always handing out money to Ben for the most ridiculous things. While living there he helped us find a place to live in Sandy and helped us purchase our second car. Having to move out of the basement of grandma and grandpa's was a sad day for me. I really missed having them around while Ben would be away at work. They were so good to me and treated me as one of their own grandkids. The following summer I was in a car accident and totaled one of our cars. Grandpa called up Ben and told him he was giving us his van. You can't be serious Grandpa! That was grandpa though, helping us out and all of his grandkids anyway he could. I made sure that I would go and visit often. I just really LOVED them so much! Every Halloween we would go over and visit them and see how Grandma had dressed up and had the house all decorated. We loved going over and watching any BYU game with them because they were true blue fans. In 2009 Grandma's health started to go and she became ill over time. The love that I had already witnessed living with them was even more evident now while Grandpa stayed by her side and took care of her the best he could. That November Grandma passed away. I was absolutely hysterical. I couldn't even think or talk about it without just sobbing. It was so emotional for me to see Grandpa sitting there at the gravesite so upset that he had lost his dear wife. My heart broke for him. Grandpa definitely persevered and went about his life. He continued to go to the temple every week as he and grandma would do. He continued to work out in his yard and maintain it. He would water ALL of Grandma's plants in the house. I remember being there one afternoon and he told me to not let him forget to water the plants because it would make Grandma so sad if he let any of them die! He continued to take care of his family. He would take me and the boys out to Arbys, and Ben and I out to Cafe Rio or the Golden Corral! I made sure to always pay him back by coming over and making dinner for him and watch movies and the news with him. We had some fun BBQ's with Grandpa on his back patio, visiting with him and playing Sequence with him. I enjoyed his company so much.



The week after New Years we heard that grandpa had pneumonia and that he was in the hospital. I immediately told Ben we needed to go see him. Thanks to my brother who came to watch the boys, Ben and I were able to go up to the hospital on Thursday the 6th and see him. We talked to him and he was very responsive and whitty as ever. We spent a little over an hour there and left. As we were leaving I looked at Ben and began to cry and told him when Grandpa left us I was going to be sooooo sad! I really didn't think though that this was going to be the last time we would talk to him and he would understand who we were. On Monday I had just arrived at the gym with a friend when Ben called me and told me that Grandpa was failing fast and we needed to get to the hospital quick to say our goodbyes. My friend Kelley was so sweet and drove me right back home so I could hop in the car with Ben and the boys. We got to the hospital and whispered in Grandpa's ear that we LOVED him. Ethan kept asking Grandpa, "Where are you going Grandpa?" We then told him, "Grandpa is going to heaven soon to be with Grandma!" Ethan followed with, "Grandpa I want to go with you!" Ben tried to explain to him that we will all be together again someday and that it wasn't his time to go with Grandpa yet. I sat there at the bedside and held his hand and cried. I knew that we were about to lose an amazing man and I was going to miss him immensely! I had a hard time leaving that night not knowing when he would leave us. Ben the next day went to work and I stayed at home with the boys. My sister Roxanne came up to relieve me at lunch time so I could go meet Ben at the hospital. That was the MOST spiritual experience for me. Witnessing the thinness of the veil and the line between life and death. I felt so blessed to be there by his side surrounded by all the family waiting for him to leave this world and reunite with his beloved wife.

Grandpa passed away that evening at 5:15pm on Tuesday January 11th. Ben immediately read that scripture in Alma where it says that as soon as we leave this mortal life we are brought back to that God that gave us life. It was so appropriate for how we were all feeling. I know I was shocked that I felt this peace come over me. Even though I missed him, I knew too how much he missed Grandma and I was SOO happy for him that he was finally reunited with his wife.

The funeral was this past Saturday and it was such a different funeral then Grandma's. I think it was because we didn't have a loving spouse that was left behind. It was a rejoice for the life he lead and all the fun memories everyone had of him.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Christmas



Christmas this year was in Reno. The drive there was probably really long for Ben because the weather was horrible but mostly because I was freaking out in the back of the car the whole 7-8 hours! Telling him to slow down, he was going too fast, it wasn't fair that the rest of our lives were dependent on how he drove and on and on and on. For about the last hour of the trip I kept my head low and watched Happy Feet! Sorry Ben!
We finally got to Reno late that night and it was just so nice to be out of the car and at home. Mom had homemade stew on the stove ready for us when we got there. EVERYONE of us was home and dad later informed us that this was going to be the last time we were all home for Christmas for a long time because of how a lot will change in the next year or two. It made me really sad but enjoy my time at home that much more.







That first week was great…we did a lot of shopping, went and saw The Chronicles of Narnia, went out to lunch with the girls, Ben and I went to Betos with Roxy (not the chain Betos, this is the real hole in the wall mexican food), more shopping, and more shopping. We had a wonderful Christmas Eve filled with seafood and a surprise visit from Santa himself…okay it may have been my Uncle Glen! :) Aidan says to Santa, "Santa take off your beard so I can see if you are Uncle Glen!" We all had a good laugh! Christmas morning was a blast. Santa got the boys an Escalade and they LOVED it! They immediately had Ben take them outside so they could ride it around the neighborhood. Christmas day was fun sitting around and visiting and playing games. Dinner was AMAZING! And like every year Christmas came and went so fast.



The second week we were there went by so fast. We celebrated my sister Carmen and Aidan's birthdays at Claim Jumper. Aidan loves that he shares a bday with his aunt. We did some more shopping that week and some more eating out. Everyone also went to see True Grit, I sat that one out at home with the boys! On New Year's Eve everyone except for me and the baby went sledding up at Galena. They all had so much fun! That night we all went out to eat at Siamese Hut for dinner, only the best Thai in Reno! At midnight it was pretty mellow. The boys were in the middle of watching A Team and I was watching Dateline. My mom passed out right before midnight, so you can only imagine how exciting ringing in 2011 was for us. :)







Sunday the 2nd, we sadly left Reno and headed home. We had a GREAT two weeks and we're so thankful for all our parents did for us. We LOVE you mom and dad!

Friday, December 24, 2010

This is what Christmas is about!

I LOVE this!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Temple Square

When it comes to the few traditions we have in our little family I am serious about them. So today wasn't the best day and our whole family is sick but this week is also the last week we are in town before we head to Reno. We hadn't gone to see the temple lights yet downtown and I was determined to get it done. I packed up all three kids in the car and headed downtown to meet up with Ben who works across the street from the temple. We bundled everyone up and walked around temple square. We saw the nativity, the Christ statue, a man playing his bag pipes, all the beautiful lights and had hot chocolate at Ben's office. We all had fun and for this I am glad I push myself to get these things accomplished!

More Projects



I made the welcome sign for my grandma and the Noel for my mother-in-law, Kathy. I have stayed up way too late trying to get these projects done. I can't possibly do them when my kids are awake though because they both want to "Help". At least they are done now. I made another one for my mom but I forgot to take a picture before I wrapped it up so I will have to post that one later!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

The Annual Anderson Christmas Party



Well those of you who know the Anderson's know what a party like this might be like! A lot of people, LOUD, tons of food, and tons of FUN! The night started at 6:30 and everyone left just before midnight! We had a Cafe Rio dinner with lots of chips and dips and salsa and fruit and cookies and cupcakes and so much more! We of course had to watch the video Ben made of Zach's big horn sheep hunt, followed by a Nativity put on by all the cousins! How cute they were dressed up as Mary and Joseph, the angels, the shepherds, and of course the wise men! My little nephew who is now eight, dresses up as Joseph every year and this year he says to me, "I am pretty sure Joseph wasn't missing a tooth!", referring to his front missing tooth! I busted out laughing and told him he was probably right but that it was okay! Then we all went upstairs to listen to the walkie talkie to Santa! Every year we have been so lucky to have one of Santa's elves drop off presents for EVERYONE! But this year Santa came himself along with his wife Mrs. Claus! Oh the kids couldn't have been more excited. Especially the older kids! :) Each kid was called by name and Santa told him what he knew about them and also some things they needed to work on to stay on the nice list! Ethan the entire time just stood there with his mouth wide open. It was hilarious! All in all, it was a great night filled with lots of love and laughter with family. Thanks to everyone who helps put these parties together every year!

Projects!


My somewhat "NEW" found favorite store is Wood Connection! I LOVE that store! I have made so many projects and have so much fun every time. I have definitely become much better at it then I was when I started last year but that's like with everything I guess…the longer you do something the better you become. I made this decoration for Aidan's preschool teacher for her Christmas present. I was so happy with the way it turned out…I kind of want to keep it for myself but I won't! I am going to be making more for my mom and grandma, so I will post pictures when I finish those.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Keaton's Baby Blessing



On Sunday we were able to bless Keaton. Our church is at nine in the morning and I was apprehensive about asking people to come because we ourselves have a hard time getting to church on time and we live just down the street. To my gratefulness we had a lot of our family come and support us. My aunt and her family, my brother Andre' and sister Roxanne, Ben's sister Jill and her husband Eric, Ben's brothers Zach and Justin and Justin's wife Katy and their family, and Ben's cousin Andrew. The blessing was beautiful and Ben and I were able to bear our testimonies. Afterwards I had two thoughtful sisters come up to me and give me the notes that they took during his blessing so that I could have hopefully enough to be able to put his blessing in writing. We left church after sacrament and had breakfast at our home and it was so nice to sit around as family and visit with each other! Thanks to everyone who came and helped on this special day!

baby Keaton is two months old!



I couldn't have asked for a better baby for my third child! Keaton has been such a joy to have. I really just love this guy. My favorite part of the day is going into his room in the morning when he has woken up and peering over into his crib and having him smile so big at me! He has the biggest smile and he loves to talk. After his bath at night while I am getting him dressed he just smiles and coos at me and I just talk to him back and he will coo back. This goes on for awhile and I LOVE it! Keaton has been sleeping through the night since he was a month old. When he was first born he would sleep sometimes until 5 or six and I was happy about that. But as time passed it got later and later and now he sleeps until 9 or 10 in the morning. He goes to bed every night at 9 and I get him up one last time to feed him at 10:30 before I put him back to bed. I don't hear from him until the next morning, 10-12 hours later! He really is the best baby. Time really does fly by…and with every child I have it seems to fly by even faster than before. I can't believe I had him 2 1/2 months ago. I took him to the doctor a week ago Monday and the doctor said he looks great!

STATS:
Weight-12.3 lbs.--56%
Length-24.5 in.--90%
Head Cir.-15.7in--38%

Thanksgiving Week Highlights



Our Thanksgiving was a lot of fun. The whole Anderson family was there minus Jerm of course who is in Italy on his mission. The family, the food, the movies, the shopping, all of it was great! We got to see Tangled which I can't wait for that to come out on DVD already! Ben saw The Unstoppable which he enjoyed as well. We went to dinner with Danny and Stephanie Dastrup who we haven't seen in at least three years! We went to dinner with all the Anderson's minus all our kids. On our last day there, the guys went shooting and the girls got taken out to Nordstroms for lunch by Kathy followed by some shopping in the mall! My highlight was when Kathy bought all of us girls a pair of boots from Steve Madden! I absolutely LOVE my new boots! Thanks Kathy and Belmont for everything that week, Ben and I are so grateful for everything you do for us!